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No Bad Parts: What Internal Family Systems (IFS) Can Teach Us About Healing, Through Divorce And Beyond
Learn how the Internal Family Systems (IFS) approach can support emotional healing after divorce. Explore the “no bad parts” idea and discover how tuning into your inner system with curiosity and compassion can help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Doris Cozma
Oct 295 min read


How We Say Things Matters: Trauma-Informed Lawyering
What happens when legal professionals start to see client behaviour through a trauma-informed lens? In this follow-up to my Resolution Breaking Down Barriers session, I explore how small shifts in language can transform communication - with real examples from family lawyers, and trauma-sensitive reframes that foster calm, clarity, and trust.

Doris Cozma
Oct 246 min read


What Lies Beneath ‘Perfect’ Relationships? What Couples Therapy and Divorce Reveal About Unconscious Relationship Dynamics
Discover what couples therapy and divorce reveal about hidden relationship dynamics, from a divorce coach's perspective on unconscious couple patterns.

Doris Cozma
Aug 174 min read


The Power of Being Understood in Divorce Support and Therapy
How a life-changing therapy experience taught me the power of being understood - and how that insight now guides my approach to compassionate, personalised divorce support.

Doris Cozma
Jul 204 min read


What If We Let Men Fall Apart? Rethinking Masculinity & Divorce Coaching for Men
This piece explores what real inclusion looks like for men’s health, especially during moments of crisis like divorce or separation. With tips, tools, and reflections (including a moving tribute to fatherhood by a loving daughter), it’s a gentle but important read for Men’s Health Week - and beyond.

Doris Cozma
Jun 155 min read


Inclusion Is Not an Add-On: Supporting LGBTQ+, Neurodivergent and Disabled Clients Through Divorce & Separation
Explore how I support LGBTQ+, neurodivergent and disabled clients through divorce with inclusive, affirming, and personalised coaching grounded in empathy and understanding.

Doris Cozma
Jun 54 min read


Are YOU Flirting with a Fantasy? Idealisation, Projection and the Psychodynamics of Love
Drawing on psychodynamic theory, I unpack why relationships, with dynamics like Joe’s and his partners throughout the show, can feel so intoxicating at first and how they so often collapse under the weight and tension of fantasy clashing with reality.

Doris Cozma
May 224 min read


Grounding Techniques: A Gentle Way to Reconnect When Overwhelmed
Discover six simple, science-backed grounding techniques to ease anxiety, overwhelm, and emotional stress. Download the free DC² Grounding Toolkit today.

Doris Cozma
Apr 243 min read


Setting Boundaries After Separation: Why It Matters and How to Begin
Discover how to set boundaries with practical, psychology-backed strategies to protect your wellbeing, support your healing and reclaim your sense of self.

Doris Cozma
Apr 174 min read


Breaking Free from Guilt and Shame
What stories are guilt and shame telling you about yourself, and are they true?

Doris Cozma
Apr 26 min read


What Children Need Most During Divorce (and How to Provide It)
Guidance on how to prioritise your children's needs during divorce or separation.

Doris Cozma
Mar 312 min read


How Nature Can Support Your Emotional Recovery, Backed by Science
Discover psychology-backed ways nature can support emotional healing after divorce.

Doris Cozma
Mar 203 min read


Seeing Our Blind Spots: Why Awareness & Collaboration Matter in Helping Professions
Recognising blind spots in Divorce Coaching is key. Learn how self-awareness, collaboration, and referrals enhance client support.

Doris Cozma
Mar 123 min read


How Divorce Coaches Can Lighten the Load for Family Lawyers
Family lawyers - spending too much time on emotional support? A Divorce Coach can help streamline cases & ease your workload.

Doris Cozma
Mar 104 min read


Why Are Women’s Struggles Treated as Symptoms, Not Stories?
Women’s pain isn’t the problem - how we’re taught to ignore it is. Divorce, trauma & breaking free from the labels we never chose.

Doris Cozma
Mar 74 min read


What 'Marriage Story' Can Teach Us About Divorce and Communication
What can Marriage Story teach us about divorce, communication and emotional resilience?

Doris Cozma
Feb 274 min read


Trauma-Informed Divorce Coaching: Supporting Clients with Sensitivity, Safety, and Strength
Learn how a trauma-aware approach helps you heal, regain control, and move forward with strength.

Doris Cozma
Feb 253 min read


Your Divorce Support Team: Who You Need and When to Ask for Help
Divorce and separation can be overwhelming, and trying to navigate it alone can make the process even harder. Who do you turn to for...

Doris Cozma
Feb 203 min read


The Unravelling: When Life as You Knew It Falls Apart
Divorce can feel like everything is unravelling, but as Brené Brown explains, unravelling isn’t breaking it’s becoming.

Doris Cozma
Feb 173 min read


'Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway': Facing Divorce with Courage
Learn how to navigate divorce and separation with confidence, resilience, and a mindset shift that turns fear into growth.

Doris Cozma
Feb 104 min read
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